Today’s passage: Proverbs 26

Helpful thoughts:

• Verses 1-12 all speak of foolishness.  13-16 the sluggard.  17-28 our speech.
• Verses 4 and 5 seem hard to understand.  They look like they disagree with each other!
  • Verse 4 should be understood as, do not be in agreement with a fool.  Don’t affirm or go along with the foolishness, or you will be taking part in it.
  • Verse 5 is saying the fool is to be rebuked.  If we leave them alone, they will continue in their foolishness without any help.
    • At some point however, if the fool continues to choose foolishness, it would be foolish to continue to get involved.  The fact that these two verses together makes us feel that there is no winning when working with a fool…that’s the point.
• It only takes a spark to start a wildfire.  We might be able to control our tongue, but once we let out our words we have no control over how far they will reach. (For the better or the worse)
  • If we spark a fire on purpose, we will get burned. (Verse 27)

Questions to consider:

1. What are the similarities in the first 12 verses and what are some specific differences?  What is true of foolish living?
2. What are the kinds of things people use their words to accomplish?  With all of the sinful things that are listed in this chapter, what would the opposite, righteous acts be?  How can we use our speech to bless and love people?
3. What proverb stuck out the most to you?  How can you put it into practice today?

Prayer:

Father, there is so much sin and selfishness and hurt represented in this chapter.  We know that the wages of sin is death.  And we thank you that the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord!  I pray that we would see the truth of the Gospel and desire to love you and love others in a way that would eradicate foolishness from our hearts, cause us to work hard for the benefit of others, and compel us to use our speech to build others up and point them to you.

Today’s passage: Proverbs 25

Helpful thoughts:

• Verse 2 and 3 are a contrast of God’s knowledge and need for counsel against that of a human king.
  • God is all-knowing and needs no counsel.
    • If God needed to ask for help or needed to be inspected, it wouldn’t be to his glory.
  • Kings have much to do and think about, and they need help.
    • If a king asks for help, it shows his wisdom.
• If you are a Christian, you are already a child of the king.  Even earthly exaltation won’t compare to eternity.
• Sometimes it can be our goal to avoid sadness, to make people stop being down.  Better to weep with those who weep, then walk with them through the hardship back to joy.

Questions to consider:

1. Which proverbs could you find quoted or said in a different way in Romans 12:9-21?
2. What picture do you think is being painted by the second half of verse 26?  When a believer keeps falling when they get around temptation, what will they be unable to do for others?
3. What proverb stuck out the most to you?  How can you put it into practice today?

Prayer:

Lord, we thank you that this world is not all we have.  We long for the day when Christ returns and rules.  We long for the day when all will be made new.  We pray for strength and focus to keep these things in mind and to keep you first in our hearts as we interact with others today.  May we value truth, your glory, and love of others more than we would desire to receive the praise of man.  Please use us to point others to Christ today!

Today’s passage: Proverbs 24

Helpful thoughts:

• Our definition of what a house is changes drastically when we believe a house is built, established and filled with riches by wisdom, understanding and knowledge.
• Wise people grow in knowledge and strength because they never stop learning.
• Verse 27 would have been directly applied by being content to live in a tent in your land until you had worked the land, made it productive and gathered resources needed to build a permanent house.
  • The idea is this: Live within your means.  Be content as you work hard and gather resources.  When the time comes and you have the means, go build that house.

Questions to consider:

1. Why do we want to eat honey (Verse 13)?  How must we value wisdom and biblical knowledge before we will desire to take it in?  Is God’s wisdom and biblical knowledge good?  Is God’s word sufficient?  What kinds of things “cut our hope off” concerning the Bible?  When we don’t feel like reading it and learning, what might be affecting our values?
2. When we envy unbelievers, what are we forgetting?  What are their motives (Verses 1-2)?  What is their end (Verses 19-20)?
3. Which proverb stuck out the most to you?  How can you put it into practice today?

Prayer:

Father, it seems so illogical that we would envy the possessions of others and at the same time be prone to laziness, but it happens.  It seems to illogical that we would call your Word so magnificent and forget sometimes to read it, but it happens.  Thank you for your grace!  Thank you for Jesus.  We all have fallen short of your glory and you have given us guarantee that our end will not be the same as those who reject you.  May we whole-heartedly rejoice in your love and therefore desire to get up, learn your wisdom, work hard and love people.  Lord, please build our houses, establish our families, and fill our rooms with the precious and pleasant riches of your kind favor.

Today’s passage: Proverbs 23

Helpful thoughts:

• We are children of the King, no other ruler should be able to lure us away from our allegiance.
• Verses 10 and 11 remind us of Boaz the kinsman redeemer for Ruth and Naomi.  Even if there is no family left to redeem the family’s legacy and land, God Himself will intervene.
  • People might get away with injustice in this world and in this lifetime.  God will prove to be the perfect judge.
• It is not unloving to discipline a child.  It is unloving to allow them to go into the world without discipline.
  • God disciplines His children because He loves them. (Hebrews 12:5-11)
• The “redness” of the wine in verse 31 refers to the higher concentration of alcohol.  If there was less water diluting the fermented mixture, the drink would be a darker red.  This is also referred to as “strong drink” in the scriptures.
  • One of the many dangers of drunkenness is that it seems to soften the blow of the negative consequences of our actions (Verse 35).  Like a self-prescribed medication for the pain caused by our sin.  When we don’t feel the pain, we won’t seek the cure (In this case, repentance).

Questions to consider:

1. If we work our whole lives to be rich, how will we view possessions and people?  How might we treat them?  How would we measure our success in life?  How would that compare or contrast to the commands to love God and love our neighbor?
2. What are we forgetting we already have when we begin to envy the lost?  What is sadly true about their hopes and the greatest things they may obtain?  How long will they last?  How can we be truly content (Philippians 4:10-13)
3. Which proverbs stuck out the most to you?  How can you put it into practice today?

Prayer:

Lord, we praise you!  You are our Creator, Sustainer, Redeemer, and King!  You have loved us in our sinful condition.  You have purchased us through the blood of Jesus.  You have given us eternal life.  You have called us to live lives that will matter for eternity.  You have promised us eternal reward as joint-heirs with Christ.  Nothing on the face of this earth could ever compare to what you have already provided to us.  Nothing on the face of this earth could ever compare to you.  May these truths ground us and give us a pure and abounding contentment as they should.  May they drive us to pursue righteousness.  And when we do sin, though we often would rather mask the pain, Lord instead please grant us repentance for the good of others around us, for our own good, and for your glory.

Today’s passage: Proverbs 22

Helpful thoughts:

• A good name can be earned through personal kindness and love toward others and it can also be inherited.
  • Our families pass down a name (e.g. Even older siblings to their youngers at school).
  • Our church has a name in the community.  We are all contributing to it and we will give it to the next generation.
• Our children learn from what we say, how we say it, by what we do and by how what we say correlates with what we do.
  • And when they are old, they will not depart from it.
  • Remember, this is a proverb.  A wisdom saying.  This verse can be misused to ask why kids didn’t turn out the way a parent wants…but when we expect kids to grow up and turn out “perfect”, we need to be humble, honest with ourselves, and realize that its only by the grace of God any of us are growing in righteousness.
• The “ancient landmarks” of verse 28 refer to boundary lines in ancient Israel.  The verse is discouraging trying to altar family property allocations.
• There is a competition going on for your mind.  Hearing from the world results in learning their ways and snares being set for our own capture.  Hearing from the Lord (Inclining our ears and applying our hearts to understand imply effort on our part) results in learning his ways and walking in righteousness and freedom.

Questions to consider:

1. How does 1 John 4:18-19 answer the proverb in verse 13 of this chapter?  Do the lazy really fear lions in the street though?  Is the problem fear or a lack of love for others?  What does the lazy person want most?  What are the greatest motivations to work hard?
2. Does a child have to learn foolishness or did we all come by it naturally (Verse 15 & Psalm 51:5)?  What should be the parents’ motivation and goal for discipline (Hebrews 12:5-11, Ephesians 6:4)?  Do parents punish or discipline?  What would the difference be?  What is God’s goal for our discipline?
3. What proverb stuck out the most to you? How could you put it into practice today?

Prayer:

Father, if my children grow up to be just like me they will need a savior.  Thank you for Jesus Christ!  And thank you for the work you have done in our lives that would allow our children to see you working in and through us.  May we remember to point them to you when they see good in us, knowing that if they are to see good and growth in their lives, it will be just as much of your doing and your grace.  May we remember to point them to you when they see the bad in us, reminding them that our hope and security rests in Jesus’ righteousness alone. And may they see us inclining our ears and applying our hearts to understand and obey your word.  Thank you for your word.  Thank you for your wisdom.  Thank you for our salvation.

Today’s passage: Proverbs 21

Helpful thoughts:

• No matter who is in “power”, God is in control.
  • No king, no president, no human being could ever hold enough power to tell God what to do.
  • God has the power and ability to change the heart of any human being.
  • Even military might is no match for God’s sovereign will.
• It is joyful to do what is right and pleasing to God when our hearts are right. (Verse 15)
  • Sometimes, we have to do what is right even if we don’t feel like it.
  • Sometimes, our heart is in the right place and we will feel like doing what is right.
    • A growing Christian will see their desires increasingly aligned with the desires of God, and therefore their joy in following Him increased as well.
• Quarrelsome is being prone to argue, to be contentious, combative.
  • Verses 9 & 19 are often seen as sort of funny, but it’s actually a vicious cycle.
  • The quarrelsome wife would be the first to say her husband should be a man and lead her spiritually, confronting her when necessary.  Then when the husband seeks to lead her and confront her about being quarrelsome, she responds in a quarrelsome way.

Questions to consider:

1. What makes verse 3 particularly important on this side of the cross?  If we were to try to appease God with a sacrifice today, what would we be saying about the sufficiency of Christ’s sacrifice on the cross?
2. How do verses 23 and 31 go together?  What characteristics might the world (Or us) consider to be strengths that would pale in comparison to the wisdom of God?  How many examples might we even find in this chapter?
3. Which proverb stick out the most to you?  How can you put it into practice today?

Prayer:

Father, forgive us for being fearful and anxious concerning the leaders of this land.  We can rest in you because you are in complete control.  May we walk in wisdom and righteousness because we know you are worthy, because we know it is right, and increasingly because we want to.  Thank you for the joy we can have in this life following Jesus.  And thank you for the eternal joy we will have with you when everything (Including us) is made perfectly right.  While we wait for that day, please give us grace to see our need for growth and change and give us ears to hear when your word and others who love us reveal them to us.

Today’s passage: Proverbs 20

Helpful thoughts:

• Mixture of water and fermented grape juice was necessary to preserve and make the water drinkable.  “Wine” was often diluted with enough water to make it harder to get drunk. “Strong drink” had less water, increasing the alcohol content.
• A wise friend and counselor will ask questions and draw out the thoughts and intentions from the heart.  He will hear the matter before giving any answers to it (Proverbs 18:13).
• A stranger or a foreigner would be much more difficult to do business with, much less likely to track down if they didn’t pay their loans.  Holding their outer garment was a way of ensuring they’d be back.
• There is a big difference between the flatterer of verse 19 and the truthful, honest, loving king of verse 28.
  • The flatterer speaks kindness to people to manipulate them for his own benefit.
  • The king does kindness to people to provide for their benefit.

Questions to consider:

1. Who are your counselors when you have big decisions to make?  What kinds of things might someone ask you about for counsel?  How can you be growing in wisdom and preparing yourself to give good counsel if someone should come to you?
2. There are many things we could be led astray by or that could become snares for us in this chapter.  Which one may be the most appealing to you?  What helps you to see it for what it is and to steer clear?  How could you help others do the same?
3. Which proverb stuck out the most to you today?  How can you put it into practice today?

Prayer:

Lord, none of us can say we have made out hearts clean, or that we have purified our own sin.  Thank you for sending Jesus Christ for our purification and cleansing!  And we thank you even more, knowing that you are fully aware of the inner depths of our hearts.  You know us entirely, inside and out, and you love us…and you have saved us.  You are our merciful, truthful and loving King and your throne will last forever.  May we your people keep our eyes and hearts fixed on you so that we might not be led astray or ensnared.

Today’s passage: Proverbs 19

Helpful thoughts:

• Ignorance is not bliss (Verse 2).
• When a kind person has wealth, they will likely share it.  When a lazy person becomes poor, others will tire of continually bailing them out.
• Verse 16 uses contrast.  To despise your ways is to be careless or reckless.  Keeping commandments is something we do on purpose.  If we simply rely on how we feel at any given moment, things will not go well.
• Parents, be encouraged; Discipline your children for their own good.  It is hard.  It is tiring.  Be diligent and persevere.  Love them.

Questions to consider:

1. Compare and contrast verse 13 and 14.  What can we learn from these verses about the family?
2. What can verse 20 teach us about the nature of wisdom and its fruits?  Is wisdom something we just have all of a sudden…or is it the result of continual learning, application, and growth?
3. Which proverbs stuck out the most to you?  How can you put it into practice today?

Prayer:

Father, thank you for giving us life through Christ!  When/If ever we are unsatisfied in this life, may we know it is because we have valued something else more than what you have already given us (Verse 23).  May we come back to your word to hear from you, listen to your counsel, and be told of your great wisdom and love.  May we be a hard working people.  Willing to spend our efforts and talents…and our spiritual gifts for your glory and the benefit of others.  Love them as you have first loved us.  And may this love be expressed toward our children as well.  Father, thank you for your loving discipline.  You are our good Father and you watch us and work in us to conform us to Christ.  I pray that the parents in our church would love their children in the same way.  Give us grace to persevere and point our children to you.  Please Lord, give them new hearts and a desire to follow hard after you and give us wisdom as we train up this next generation.